These are questions I am asked quite often with My answers following them.

Q: Where is your dungeon located?

A: My dungeon is within My home just 10 minutes from Downtown Columbus, Ohio.

Q: How am I to address you?

A: You will address Me as MsPatty or Mistress Patty unless told otherwise.

Q: Are there other Mistresses or Female submissives present during our time together?

A: No, I prefer to have you all to Myself unless I am in the mood to bring a friend in to watch.

Q: Are you a Pro-Domme?

A: No, I do not consider Myself a professional dominant since I do not view My love for the lifestyle as a profession. I also do not run or own a professional dungeon. I live the D/s lifestyle 24/7 and My Dominant personality does not turn off and on like a light switch.

Q: Why is a tribute involved:

A: Your tribute/gift contributes to not only supplies and toys that may need replaced but to make My life a bit easier.

Q: Does your neighbors know what you do behind closed doors?

A: One or two of My neighbors do know what I enjoy doing but in general no they do not and this will be kept that way. Discretion is ensured this way for both you and I.

Q: When do I get your location/direction information?

A: You will not get My exact location till your confirmation call which is set up 1-3 hours prior to our schedule meeting.

Q: What happens within a first meeting?

A: Based on My mood, our shared interests and your hard limits our meeting together will involve pushing your physical and psychological limits.

Q: Do you wear Fetish wear?

A: I believe in being comfortable to enjoy you. This means normally I do not wear PVC and Leather even though I do dress to impress. I just love showing off My sexy self.

Q: What is your marital status?

A: I am currently single. And yes before you ask...I do date when the mood strikes Me.

Q: What does BBW Stand for?

A: BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman and means Plus Sized Woman.

Q: Will photos or videos be taken during our time together?

A: No. The only time I take photos or do videos is with consensual consent which is talked about before our meeting.

Q: Are you looking for a 24/7 live-in slave?

A: No, currently I am not.

Q: May I please bring you a gift or give you a cash tip?

A: While a gift is certainly not required, I am a woman and what woman does not love surprises? Will it cause Me to look upon you differently....I'm going to be quite honest...Yes. Frankly someone so sweet to bring a lovely gift  will catch My eye.

Q: What is the difference between you, a Pro-Domme and an escort?

A: While an escort may fuck you, I will not. A Pro-Domme meets with clients to fulfill the fantasy by catering to the client's desires including wearing fetish wear, I will not. I am a lifestyle Dominant meaning I live within the D/s lifestyle and I enjoy exploring My fetishes with those that share them. My meetings are based on OUR shared fetishes/interests, your Hard Limits and My imagination. I do not do role-playing other than within Discipline, I don't wear fetish wear since I would rather be more focused on enjoying you than about being uncomfortable in fetish wear and I do not do fantasy scene fulfillment.

Q: What do you enjoy outside of your fetishes?

A: I am passionate about travel, love traveling. I also enjoy writing about My meetings, photography, contributions to charities, My girls (5 cats), cooking, family,  parties, hanging out, movies, music, surfing the web, long hot baths and basically enjoying life.

Q: Do you smoke?

A: Yes I do. I go between Camel Wide Full Flavor and Marlboro 100's Full Flavor. I do NOT smoke during My meetings unless I am exploring with you Smoking Fetish.


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